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The Big Break

Will Devon Worley Band be the Opening Act™ at Audacy’s (formerly Radio.com) annual We Can Survive concert? Our previous winners opened for Taylor Swift, Lizzo, Billie Eilish, and more!

In addition to performing at the sold out concert alongside industry superstars, our Opening Act will receive: their own private dressing room, a ton of exposure on the radio, a meet and greet with the other artists, and $10,000!

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What do you enjoy most about being a musician?

Being a musician is very much just who you are. It is not a job. It is a thing that lives in you. Regardless of what you do with it. This question could just as easily be “what do you enjoy about having a heartbeat?”. It is part of us. 

Which musician would you like to collaborate with?

I have a big, textured, female voice. I would love to collab with a male/female artist that is similar such as: Jelly Roll Willie/Lukas Nelson Eric Church Post Malone Robert Plant (Why not) Steven Tyler Amy Lee MILEY CYRUS* Halsey

If you were the next Opening Act, what would you do with $10,000?

I would go to the nearest bar and buy some cheap bottles of champagne and celebrate with my boys. Then I’d probably spend a bunch of it promoting the contest, footage, etc.. kind of a big deal to win and I’d FINALLY have some money to promote! 

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Why should single parents homeschool their children?

Single parents may choose to homeschool their children for several reasons. Here are some potential benefits of homeschooling for single parents:

  1. Flexibility: Homeschooling allows single parents to create a flexible schedule that suits their family’s needs. They can adapt the curriculum and learning hours to fit their work schedule or other responsibilities.
  2. Individualized Attention: Homeschooling enables single parents to provide one-on-one instruction and personalized attention to their children. This approach can be particularly beneficial for children who have unique learning styles or special educational needs.
  3. Stronger Parent-Child Bond: Homeschooling allows single parents to spend more time with their children and actively participate in their education. This can strengthen the parent-child bond and foster deeper relationships.
  4. Consistent Values and Beliefs: Single parents may choose homeschooling to ensure that their children receive an education in line with their values, beliefs, and culture. They have more control over the curriculum and can incorporate their family’s principles into their teaching approach.
  5. Increased Safety and Well-being: Homeschooling can provide a safe and secure learning environment, especially if the single parent has concerns about their child’s safety or well-being in traditional schools. It can also reduce exposure to negative peer influences or bullying.
  6. Tailored Learning Pace: Single parents can adjust the pace of learning to match their child’s abilities and interests. They can provide additional support or challenge their child academically as needed, promoting a more personalized and effective learning experience.
  7. Enhanced Life Skills: Homeschooling offers the opportunity for single parents to teach their children essential life skills outside of traditional academics. They can focus on practical skills, such as financial literacy, cooking, or problem-solving, which can be valuable for their child’s future.
  8. Increased Parental Involvement: Single parents who homeschool have a greater opportunity to be actively involved in their child’s education. They can closely monitor progress, identify strengths and weaknesses, and address any challenges promptly.

It’s important to note that homeschooling requires dedication, time, and effort from the parent. Single parents considering homeschooling should carefully evaluate their ability to provide an appropriate education and consider their child’s socialization needs, as homeschooling may require additional efforts to provide social interactions and extracurricular activities.

Why should Single Parents start a business with a Shopify store?

Starting a business with a Shopify store can be a great option for single parents for several reasons:

  1. Flexible Schedule: Running your own online business allows you to set your own hours. You can work when it’s most convenient for you, which is particularly helpful if you have to juggle your work schedule with childcare responsibilities.
  2. Work from Home: With a Shopify store, you can run your business from the comfort of your home. This can save you commuting time and childcare costs.
  3. Income Potential: While the success of any business is never guaranteed, operating your own Shopify store offers the potential for significant income, depending on what you sell and how effectively you market your products.
  4. Easy to Start: Shopify is a user-friendly platform that makes it relatively easy to set up an online store, even without extensive technical knowledge. It offers various templates, built-in payment options, and marketing tools.
  5. Low Startup Costs: Compared to starting a brick-and-mortar store, an online Shopify store can have significantly lower startup costs. You don’t need to invest in a physical location or a large amount of inventory upfront.
  6. Wide Reach: With an online store, you can reach customers from all around the world, not just in your local area. This can significantly increase your potential customer base.
  7. Support and Resources: Shopify offers a range of resources to help you succeed, including 24/7 customer support, online tutorials, and a large community of other store owners who can provide advice and support.
  8. Scalability: As your business grows, Shopify can grow with you. It’s easy to expand your store, add more products, or even start selling in different countries.

Remember, starting any business involves risks and requires a significant commitment of time and effort. Before you start, it’s a good idea to do thorough research, make a business plan, and consider consulting with a business advisor or coach.

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Dating and the Single Parent

* Are You Ready to Date? * Talking With the Kids * Avoiding a Big Mistake * Finding Lasting Love

Front Cover $12.5 Click here to buy now
Baker Books, Oct 1, 2012Religion240 pages
If you are a single parent who is currently dating or thinking about starting a dating relationship, stepfamily expert Ron Deal can help you navigate the waters, avoid potential pitfalls, and point you toward a path of making it a blessing for your children. Includes questions for individual or group study.

Trustworthy Stepfamily Expert Offers Single Parents a Guide to Dating

Single parents who are dating or want to begin a dating relationship wonder, How will dating affect my children and my parenting? They probably have figured out that “dating in a crowd” is complicated. Now they’re looking for help. Ron Deal, who has counseled single parents and remarried couples for many years, helps single parents–as well as those who date them–navigate the potential pitfalls involved. He gives perspective on when a relationship may be harmful to the children as well as how it can be a blessing to all. Always at the forefront is the goal of strengthening families. Includes questions for individual or group study.

4.8 out of 5
Quality:
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Value:
5 out Of 5
(5 out of 5)
Meets Expectations:
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100% of customers would recommend this product to a friend.

  1. Sean Golden
    Newark, OH
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: male
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Worth the purchase!
    January 9, 2014
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5

    As a pastor, I recommend this book to any person who is single with children or someone who is dating an individual who has children. What makes this book so rich is that the author keeps it biblical. Many times authors tend to stray for Scripture, giving their own ideology. This man, however, keeps it biblical and gives some gut punching truths for others.

    Please get this book if you are single with a child or considering dating someone who as a child. Moreover, if you are considering a marriage and have children, please read this before you go any further.

    It’s a fruitful book that will open your eyes and bless you.

  2. anne
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    great outlines
    July 9, 2013
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    this book tells u hard truth of how a relationship should be establish and should be considered when dating. This book open my eyes to a lot of questions I never even thought, it opens to reconsider what is appropriated to do when having a kid to considered. I love this book and is a book single moms should have
  3. Emily
    Canon City, CO
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    December 20, 2012
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    I think this book is amazing. Every single parent show read it. It has made me look at a relationship differently. I’ve seen were I’ve went wrong even with my daughter in my relationships.
  4. Stephanie
    Ohio
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    4 Stars Out Of 5
    Trust but verify
    November 4, 2012
    The interview on the radio that inspired me to get this book was “don’t just look at coupleness – look at the whole family compatability” (paraphrased). That was something I needed to hear. What I also needed to hear but do not see much of it thus far (still reading but read enough to say this) is there is not much affirmation of the wisdom one may already be applying. Some statements are so devoid of affirmation that they miss the full story: there is little to no acknowledgement that something good may be brought to the new family dynamic. The book sometimes feels like a scolding to an unthinking child. But with that said I do recommend it for blind spots because this decision is so serious. And I am sure that was his heart. I told my one friend, who I enlisted as confidant, that if one chooses to marry after reading this book they are either stupid or know God, Himself, has lead them toward marriage. No middle ground. So, trust the author yet remember you are capable, or you wouldn’t be in search of wisdom anyhow. God bless you with wisdom and strength.
  5. BevK
    WI
    Age: Over 65
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Reviewing DATING AND THE SINGLE PARENT
    October 27, 2012
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5

    This book is not a surface-feel-good book, but one that makes you look at yourself realistically. You can’t just skim it; every page is important. He quotes a single parent who said, “we had no idea what we were getting into”… after reading THIS book, that won’t be you!

    The author is up front and in your face with real issues — he asks you first of all to want God’s blessing in whatever you do. He asks questions so you can avoid repeating past mistakes and discern if you are ready to be serious again.

    At the end of each chapter he lists discussion questions that hammer home the information, and help you to realistically look at yourself and those you are with.

    The author explains the difference between “coupleness” and “familyness” which will give the reader a lot to consider. Coupleness does not equal familyness and should be kept in the forefront of every meeting and activity.

    He will probably shock a lot of people about ‘soul-mate’ but what he says hits the mark; he is right-on and will save people a lot of heart-ache if they listen.

    I liked how he promotes involving God and His ways in every area of one’s life i.e. a spiritually determined purpose in dating, everyone can learn from. Here is one of the thoughts he puts forth:

    “In what way is your purpose in dating blocking God’s purpose for you in dating?”

    Like I said, he asks thought-provoking and self-examining questions only you can answer.

    One piece of wisdom I’ll share here is when he says “marry someone, not as a replacement parent, but because you love them and believe they will help you raise your kids in the Lord.”

    The author gives a behavior list and says he would limit it to 1-4; I would have to say in that area, I would limit it 1-3. You’ll have to get the book to see what I am talking about!

    I am not a reviewer who ‘gives away’ the whole story, but I hope this review will give single parents or those dating a single parent, a taste to read this book. It is well worth it.

    I was given this book to review by Bethany House Publishers with no restrictions as to how I would review it. I do highly recommend it.

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Why are so many non-offending parents getting victimized by the CPS system.

    Support For Single Parents Fighting CPS
              Why are so many non-offending parents getting victimized by the CPS system, of mandated reporting.  Some of them have recently been offered a substantial bonus for opening at least six new investigations a month. No kidding, a CASH BONUS! If you are in their computer, you are a target. This includes if you get food stamps, Medicaid, etc. Nothing is FREE. There are some strings attached to Welfare that are beyond comprehension.

The Adoption and Safe Families Act, set in motion by President Bill Clinton, offered cash “bonuses” to the states for every child they adopted out of foster care. In order to receive the “adoption incentive bonuses,” local child protective services need more children. They must have merchandise (children) that sells and you must have plenty of them so the buyer can choose. Some counties are known to give a $4,000.00 bonus for each child adopted and an additional $2,000.00 for a “special needs” child. Employees work to keep the federal dollars flowing.

The National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect in 1998, reported that six times as many children died in foster care than in the general public and that once removed to official “safety,” these children are far more likely to suffer abuse, including sexual molestation than in the general population.

According to the California Little Hoover Commission Report in 2003, 30% to 70% of the children in California group homes do not belong there and should not have been removed from their homes.

The system cannot be trusted. It does not serve the people. It obliterates families and children simply because it has the power to do so.

“Proverbs 31:8-9

http://fightcps.com/2008/02/29/report-of-georgia-senator-nancy-schaefer-on-cps-corruption/

Support for Victims of Child Protective Services

Support for Parent Victims Fighting CPS: http://sfvocps.blogspot.com/

      • CPS Victim Support aims to help families who are having legal issue with Child Protective Services is destroying families and stealing kids.. the parents have no clue of the dangers.
    •  CPS Victim Support aims to help families who are having legal issue with Child Protective Services, and find solutions to child abuse outside of government intervention. GET the taping laws for your state, and know your rights, and the law.  IF they already have opened a case, and even if they already have taken your kids, you still must follow this list of things to do, and you must learn fast to defend yourself. Possibly the most important thing you can take away from reading this list.. :
      THE BEST DEFENSE IS AN AGGRESSIVE, AFFIRMATIVE, AND RELENTLESS OFFENSE!!!
      Keep posting to the groups, and keep reading, you never know enough. One last thing, the most important of all, NEVER stop praying for guidance to get you through this evil time.
      Single Parents Helping Single Parents

CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES AND THE JUVENILE JUSTICE SYSTEM
Free_Handbook CPS.pdf [340 KB]

CPS Index Page of more links

http://justicewomen.com/tips_bewarechildprotectiveservices.html

CPS Case – The kidnapping and forced vaccination of baby Flint [.doc file 98 KB]

CPS VICTIM’S BEGINNERS MANUAL

 From Colorado Family Rights Association

Source, no longer online (received in an email dated October 2004):
http://familyrightsassociation.com/info/help/cps_victims_beginners_manual.htm

CPS VICTIM’S BEGINNERS MANUAL

These are things you should have done BEFORE CPS invaded your life. The chances are, though, that until they knocked on the door, it had never crossed your mind to have to protect yourself and your kids from them. Sadly, this is WHY they have such success at destroying families and stealing kids.. the parents have no clue of the dangers. You are working to protect your kids from every danger you are aware of, and the most dangerous of all threats is one that you are paying to support every time you cash a paycheck. Think you have nothing to hide? You don’t have to.. they will be happy to make some up FOR you.

Based on my personal experiences, these are the steps I deem absolutely necessary to self defense in this situation:

If you have not already- NEVER EVER let them into your home without seeing a
SIGNED Search warrant. Yes the refusal pisses them off, and they MAY just have
the cop with them force you out of the way. MAKE them. Don’t make it easy for
them to violate your rights. Make them force you and get every word and step on
http://www.familyrightsassociation.com

GET the taping laws for your state, and know your rights, and the law.

If you live in one of those states where both parties must be aware of the tape recording, you CAN place two recorders in play.. one in plain sight. If the worker objects to being recorded, you do a song and dance about “WHY, what do you have to hide, etc. If you are only doing your job, why does a tape recording intimidate you?” If she absolutely refuses to be recorded, shrug and sigh, and reach over and turn off the one on the table. DO NOT SAY ANYTHING, just continue talking to her, asking unrelated questions, or something to side track her. Leave the hidden one running. You will have a tape of her objecting, but going on speaking as if she just gave up.

The other self defense to this sort of two party law is to place notices on all your doors (the WARNING sign noted above) which include the statement that entering this home is an implied consent to be tape recorded or video recorded and you may be recorded at any time.

You can also send a letter (CERTIFIED, so you can PROVE they got it) to all parties and notify them that calling you or visiting your home may be recorded at any time. IF they object to being recorded, they are welcome to communicate to you through written media.

Write a request for a Child Welfare Manual for your state. You will have to ask what the proper term is for it, they are different in every state. You have a right to a copy of this book, though, and can request it. Give them five business days to respond, and if they do not, contact your STATE DHS information officer and complain that you have been denied a copy. Again, send these things CERTIFIED mail so you have proof of dates etc.

Require that they give you some written explanation of the grievance process for filing a complaint against the agency or a social worker. Do NOT be intimidated or side tracked by their standard “Why, what do you want that for? Who are you complaining about?” you have the right to be informed of the right to complain, and the process to use, as a part of any initial contact with you. They know that, and never EVER inform the families that this right exists. MAKE THEM PROVIDE THIS!

Go to a dollar store, and buy a half dozen loose leaf notebooks and a hole puncher. EVERY time you send a letter, or get one, or get a court document, a note on a scrap of paper from someone related to this case, place it in one of those notebooks. Include copies of all the certified letters you are sending, along with the proofs of mailing etc. You will rapidly fill them all, trust me. Keep everything, and keep it in order of the dates. You can place tabs and dividers to locate various important things if you need to.

There is a list of books you should read. If your local library doesn’t have them, ask if they can GET you a copy to read.

Profane Justice-also visit http://www.profane-justice.org

Making Reasonable Efforts

There are more, I will add them when I have time to find the right titles. If some of YOU have favorites, by all means, post them here in the files list, as a reading list.

Get and read the Children’s Codes of your state laws. They are called statutes in some states, Codes in others, but they are the laws governing your states handling of child welfare cases. Get and read and RE read the Federal and State Rules of Civil Procedure. You HAVE to know how to properly address the court, and how to file a motion or report to the judge on your own. Likely, your lawyer is going to be totally worthless, so learn to handle yourself in court, you are going to HAVE to.

If they have EVER had information on you in the child protection offices or even on your EX or just a step kid, you must get ALL of your records, mentioned above.

Every time you have a conversation or meeting with ANYone, Dr., Social Worker,Attorney, anyone, write a letter to them as soon as you get home. There is a form to use on Profane Justice and also on AFRA. It says this is what I understood you to say at our meeting, (phone conversation, whatever) today, xXX date at about XXX time. And this is what I recall that I said to you or that we agreed upon. If you object to this accounting of any portion of this conversation, please notify me within five days in writing of exactly what your objection is, and why. Failure to respond will be considered an implied agreement to the facts as I have stated them herein.  Send them the same way.. certified, return receipts. File the copies in your trusty notebooks, along with the mailing and delivery proofs. Do this EVERY TIME you have a talk , phone call, a meeting with etc anyone involved in your case in ANY way, even your ex mother in law. Hell, even your MOTHER! (lighten up, I’m kidding! Although I have met some Moms, aka Grammas, who would say anything to GET the grand kids from the son or daughters ex spouse!)

If you can’t get online at home, go to the library and sign up for a free email address at yahoo.com. Start joining Family Rights groups and reading the posts on them. Write the timeline in the next item, and post it to the yahoo groups. Those parents will most likely have cases very similar to yours, some of them will even be from your state. They can save you DAYS of searching for information and documents.

Write a timeline of your case, and keep it current.

List every single thing that led up to this case, from day one. Don’t go into deep detail, just the facts, listed in the order that they happened, along with notations of what proof you have and what lies were entered. This list should be done by date and time. If several things happened on one date, list the times, at least approx. of each.

Do not try to gloss over things you think will make you look bad. Save that for court. If you did something wrong, admit it, and explain it. HOWEVER, do NOT make any public admissions, if there are things that they have valid accusations against you for, talk about those privately with an attorney AND a trusted advocate. NOT on the internet. What I am referring to here is things like not mentioning that you tested positive for Coke a couple of years ago and the investigation was later dropped. Things like that. Don’t leave those things out of your timeline, they have a direct impact on what CPS is doing to you. But if you DID something that could be twisted, and misrepresented, don’t admit to it in a public document. Remember, EVERYthing you post anywhere IS public, no matter how private it looks. While you need to be as honest as you can with people who are trying to help you, you must not expose yourself to some accusation or admission of guilt in the process. Also know that CPS regularly taps phones, hacks emails, and monitors boards where it is a members only forum. They regularly pretend to be parents needing help, to get IN to monitor US. Let the others help you defend or mitigate anything you might have accidentally done to warrant CPS attention. If you are guilty of some accusation they are posing against you, at least privately with your advocate, you MUST be honest about this. These people are your support. If you aren’t honest with them, they can’t help you. If you hide things that come out later you look more guilty than you probably are. For instance.. if the house really IS a pig sty, the position most of us have about that is that it may BE a valid excuse under current law, to have a CPS intervention. (We object to THAT, but it IS the law right now, so hard to stop til we can get some laws changed) BUT it is NOT a valid reason to take a kid out of the home. IF you are guilty of some drug abuse, and are willing to get treatment, there are other ways to protect the kids and assure that you don’t endanger them besides traumatizing them with removal. Family support, church supports, etc can and should be the protection of choice. If you LIE about those things, no one can help you fight the invasion effectively, besides your lack of honesty will likely make the advocates angry, and they will not TRY to help you.

Learn what the court process is for your state, and know what to expect. Learn what the lawyer (especially if he is court appointed) should be doing and when, and know the laws yourself. There are blanket sample instruction letters for attorneys that you can modify to fit what you want to tell your attorney about how you wish to be represented. Copy one and use it for a guideline, and send him one, remembering to send everything with return receipts.

The center most point of this is that you will rarely, if EVER, find a lawyer, paid or not, who knows how and is willing to fight this sort of case effectively. The only person you are going to be able to trust and rely on to help you is YOU. If you don’t know what should be said and done, and when, you will be a victim. The only way to defend your family is to become your own attorney. This is going to mean that you basically take on the task of learning overnight what some lawyers still don’t know.. you need to become an overnight expert on family courts and civil rights. Get on the internet and read til you are blind. Learn what the Bill of Rights is, and what it says, and how those things apply to your rights as a parent, and the rights of your kids. Probably the most powerful tool you will have in this fight, after you have followed this list, is the support and advice of the other parents on these email groups. They are all veterans of this war, know the standard tripe that CPS does to people, and know how to combat it. Keep in constant touch with these people. NO one is more of an expert than someone speaking from experience, and from hindsight. They may well be telling you things that they wish THEY had known or done, and realize NOW could have saved them the loss of their kids. There are several on these groups who have permanently lost their kids, and are trying to help people like YOU avoid that heartbreak. I would again caution you that not everyone on these groups is a friend. I would wager a guess that a mole doesn’t last long, because we are all watching for it, and aware. Many of us have tracking devices on our sites, and know who is hitting them and from where, specifically. But if you are asking for advice, it is your responsibility to hear all the various people responding to you, and then make your own mind up. NEVER just accept some persons advice without checking out that person with the groups, and hearing THEIR ideas, and making your own informed decisions. And yes, that includes ME.

Go to the websites, http://www.familyrightsassociation.com is the best, there are tons of links there.. and find a HATCH letter for your kids’ schools. There is also a more in depth one on http://www.profane-justice.org, Suzanne Shell’s website, along with a “reverse Miranda”. Print and sign copies for the schools, to be kept in your kids files, and get the school to date and sign for the receipt of one for each child. Just have them date and sign a copy of the letter. Keep those copies in your notebooks. They require that the school never allow anyone to interview or examine one of your children without you and a legal representative present. They can and DO sneak to the school, with the HELP of the school, to interview and coerce your kids to say things to use against you. This letter slows them down, and also gives you a handle on holding the school accountable later. The threat, written in that letter, of prosecution, may stop the school from violating your rights. Be aware that it may NOT. Educate your kids not to speak with social workers, or cops, no matter how friendly and nice they seem. You can print cards for the kids to hand them that state the phone numbers of you, grand parents, family friends, your lawyer, etc. Also they should include the kids rights, that they may read to the SW or cop. (See reverse Miranda) Instruct the kids to NEVER talk to even a school counselor without you telling them in person that it is ok. Suzanne suggests making up some code word that only you and your kids know.. so that if you really intend for them to speak, you can tell them that word, and otherwise, they don’t talk at all. I highly recommend that if your kids are old enough to handle it.

PLEASE consider home schooling your children. This is the number ONE access these child stealers have to your kids.. the public school, also known as indoctrination camps, and intake portals. The BEST defense is to get your kids out of public schools.

There are a couple of kids’ books out that help to instruct kids about how to defend against this crap. AFRA (familyrightsassociation.com) has them listed. The one on Suzanne Shells site, Profane-Justice.org, written by her, is GREAT!

Know, in your heart of hearts, that you are not alone, that this is a nasty battle, and you must have some resolve to be aggressive and to educate yourself FAST. And that you CAN win. If you wring your hands and whine and wait for someone to fix it FOR you, I will simply pray that you kissed your kids goodbye last time you saw them.

Know that if they have EVER done an investigation on your family, even if it was closed as unfounded, they WILL be BACK. It would be best to move, and get your kids outta their reach. Social workers REGULARLY make anonymous calls to hotlines FOR one another, to get cases opened up. Some of them have recently been offered a substantial bonus for opening at least six new investigations a month. No kidding, a CASH BONUS! If you are in their computer, you are a target. This includes if you get food stamps, Medicaid, etc. Nothing is FREE. There are some strings attached to Welfare that are beyond comprehension. If you have no choice, make it as short as you can, and learn from these family rights sites to protect yourself from the almost certain victimization that will be brought to you as a result.

If there is no open case against you, you have no court orders, the CPS has not notified you of an open investigation, etc… but they have been snooping around your kids, trying to question you, etc, take your kids as far away as you can. I have often urged parents to just pack up, grab this weeks paycheck, and run. Even if you have nothing to hide and are a pillar of the community, you are in grave danger if they have targeted you. IF they have not yet officially opened a case against you, the best defense is get outta there. Failing to do that could cost you years of misery, and you might never see your kids again. That sounds melodramatic, but it is the God’s Honest Truth.

IF they already have opened a case, and even if they already have taken your kids, you still must follow this list of things to do, and you must learn fast to defend yourself. Possibly the most important thing you can take away from reading this list.. :
THE BEST DEFENSE IS AN AGGRESSIVE, AFFIRMATIVE, AND RELENTLESS OFFENSE!!!

Keep posting to the groups, and keep reading, you never know enough. One last thing, the most important of all, NEVER stop praying for guidance to get you through this evil time.

Christine.. Colorado Family Rights Association.

All the Right Moves: Roc City’s Favorite Local oline Mag Goes Mobile

SPHSPCode The app of the month is taking Rochester’s NY SINGLE PARENTS HELPING SINGLE PARENTS Magazine readers by storm—and we’re not talking about cyclones. The lifestyle publication, which has the skinny on just about everything in town, has long-since been a staple among Roc locals. sphspMobpic And as a good number of these locals have gone mobile, the magazine is paying it forward with its recently-launched Conduit Mobile-powered Single Parents Helping Single ParentsMag App, a dynamic, interactive information hub that does the lively metropolis proud. The Single Parents Helping Single Parents Mag App takes home the gold in every category. It’s well managed, it has seamless functionality, and most importantly, it’s got great content that lets users stay informed, stay connected, and stay local. A versatile news feed chronicles everything from breaking news to ROC’s legendary Annual Halloween party. Music lovers are entertained by an eclectic collection of streaming tunes highlighting the city’s unique music culture and local artists. A comprehensive Event Listings feature is perfect for both locals and tourists in search of a perfect destination, be it the latest after-hours hotpots or a cultural landmark. And the Nightlife Photos link gives a community feel with snapshots of users’ nocturnal adventures on the town. What can we say? Big congrats go out to SINGLE PARENTS HELPING SINGLE PARENTS Magazine for some moves well played and a wholly engaging, exceptional app. As to the hows, whys, and whats of publishing a mobile app? SINGLE PARENTS HELPING SINGLE PARENTS Magazine founder, Daniel Leach, explains. First and foremost, how has going mobile helped your business? “The mobile platform has simplified the logistics of content delivery. Going mobile has also made the publication more accessible to a larger number of readers. I’ve learned that access equates to growth. Because of our mobile app development, we have witnessed tremendous growth in our readership, downloads, and impressions.” Mission accomplished. Why did you decide to make an app, and why did you choose the Conduit Mobile platform? “I wanted to design an app that delivered localized content that my magazine readers would enjoy. I utilized the Conduit Mobile platform because it offered me maximum control without enduring the learning curve of brushing up on new code. The deployment and analytic s options were very alluring as well. After spending ample time engaging and learning the nuances of the Conduit Mobile dashboard, I decided to dive head first into the creation of my first app, Single Parents Helping Single Parents Mag.” And what a splash he’s made… Your favorite in-app feature? “I would have to say that the page that I favor the most in the Single Parents Helping Single Parents Mag app would have to be the home page. Ultimately, it’s an interactive news feed with countless possibilities. I often utilize this real estate for late breaking news updates, highlighting local musicians, notifying my users of special events in the area, and bringing awareness of the vast amount of locally owned business promotions in the area. I believe the news page rounds out the app. It’s not only the greeting page—it also connects and accentuates the diversity of the additional app pages.” What about user feedback? “I have received immense feedback in regard to the app. There have been accolades, and there have been suggestions for improvement. I believe improvement is a continuous endeavor, so I welcome all forms of feedback.” A humble, no-nonsense approach that has no doubt contributed to the man’s success. Any particularly popular features? “A large majority of my app users enjoy the news feed and embedded music player.” And how has your app boosted the magazine’s presence in the mobile world? “Mobile applications provide a dynamic level of dexterity for the creator and availability to the end user. With the Single Parents Helping Single Parents Mag app I am able to deliver new and exciting content to the readers of the Single Parents Helping Single Parents Magazine publication. I believe that experiencing Single Parents Helping Single Parents Mag on this level is organic and natural for the readers.” Well said, and it couldn’t be truer. Admit it—you want one too. The good news is, you can have it, and creating that award-winning app is much easier than you think. Let the spirit Single Parents Helping Single Parents you, and get started with Conduit Mobile today.

Tossing social etiquette to the wind and why would you feel comfortable enough to pose that, like you’re inquiring about?

with some humor:
In reference to my kids:
“Is his father/mother in the picture?” Ugh. That’s so rude. Why would you ask that question like he/she isn’t? And even more importantly, why would you feel comfortable enough to pose that, like you’re inquiring about where I got my sweater or who did my hair? Rude party of one.
“Maybe she’s acting out because… you know… dad’s not around.” Maybe she is. So what’s your excuse?
“Who’s his daddy?” Wow. Well, since we’re tossing social etiquette to the wind: how much do you weigh? What did you bring home on your taxes last year? Make you feel uncomfortable? OK, that’s how we feel too.
All up in my love life:
“No man is going to want you with all of those kids.” Mmm hmm. Mmm hmm. Thanks for making that point. And what, pray tell, would you suggest I do with these kids now that I have them? Trade them in for the man? Or give up on the man and just resign myself to a life of singleness? Bigger than that, that’s just a really mean thing to say. Sheesh.“I’ll pray for a family for you and your daughter.” Before you get into that, you might need to go on ahead and pray that my hand doesn’t accidentally land across the back of your head. Contrary to what you might think, my daughters and I together are a family. Yep, just us. Adding a man does not make us better. We’re doing just fine by ourselves.“You’ve got all them kids and now you want to be celibate?” Blank stare. No comment.
About my life in general:
“I don’t know how you do it!” I don’t either. But it gets done, so let’s not over analyze the logistics. I’m walking on water here and I’m trying not to look down.“Where’s Angelise and Raelynn?” You know, I actually stopped being pregnant 3 years ago. That was the last time we were physiologically tied together. Sometimes she does gnaw loose from that chains that apparently keeps up attached at the ankles.
“You look tired.” That’s because I am. But thank you for your transparency and honesty. Care to watch over my household while I take a nap?
Okay single parents research time< What are some thing people say or have said to you that just gets on your very last nerve??????